Prologue to Emotion
To synchronize with another human means to coexist wholly. The goal is to push growth for the future. A popular rift in this balance is the extremes of males and females. On the female side: Emotion. On the male: Physical. When both are abused, a negative effect is probable.
For this writing, I wish to focus on the emotional side of a female. I will preface this by saying I am no expert in the field. It is based on my studies in deducing problems I have faced in the past.
Raw emotion from a female is meant to be acknowledged. I passively let it fall by the wayside without allowing it to affect me; much to her dismay. I wished to be told there was a problem instead of answering her emotional signals. I felt I deserved a logical explanation. Unfortunately, it ended poorly because I was not offended by her outbursts. “Did I deserve all that prodding?” I wondered. Emphatically: NO.
I am more of an observer who would rather speak through action, rather than meander through petty arguments. These arguments will eventually snowball into public scenes of disrespect and whatever else. I feel as though it is not my duty to be the father preaching from the book of common sense. Instead, I smile and laugh. At least I have the power to move someone…